Thursday, April 7, 2011

breakdown

gotta keep this short and sweet.

- we've been dating a year next month

- we met... wait for it... on match.com

- still so crazy that we met on there but it happens

- we should be the new spokescouple

- we had our 1st AND 2nd date all in one day/night

- he's a fireman. enough said.

- LOVE his family! I pretty much gave up on the possibility of finding someone with a family just as great as the Rooneys. I got lucky, twice.

- pretty amazing when you think the perfect person for your situation doesn't exist then God pops him right into your life

- timing is everything and there is no timeline

- he proposed in February in front my entire family and his parents

- getting married in 6 months

77 comments:

Jennifer said...

I love the breakdown!!!!!! Congrats again! He's fabulous!!!

wifey said...

Erynn,

I've been reading your blog for a while now (not sure how I found you but my mom and both of my grandmas were young widows so your story resonates with me). I've never commented but I just wanted to say congratulations! He sounds like a wonderful man, and I am so happy you have found some happiness. You so deserve it!

xoxo

Courtney said...

I love the breakdown too! I really wish I could have gotten the chance to spend more time with him (and you!!) when we were in Vegas, but I hope we get another chance soon! So happy you found someone so special for your life!

xoxo

F and G = T & T said...

Absolutely fantastic!!! Could not be happier for you! Good things happen to good people. PLUS you have 2 special angels watching down on u & ur kids!! I read ur friend Michele's blog so I saw the pics - soooo sweet! Congratulations!! U deserve this happiness. U r blessed! XoXo Farra

jenni from the blog said...

WOOT! So happy for you, my dear. =)

xo

Shelley said...

You definitely have been blessed! Im so happy for you, and he is one lucky guy to get to spend his life with you and your 2 little cuties.

Anonymous said...

That is awesome! I wish you a lifetime of happiness. Where are you having the wedding? Big/or small? Can't wait for the details/pics.

Elizabeth said...

I have never commented, but have followed your blog for a while. Sooo happy for you!! My husband is a firefigher as well :) Best of luck to you!!!

Momma Brown said...

erin, so happy for you. my husband and i met on match.com as well. i went through a few creeps - but he ultimately won my heart.
seriously, i only know you through your blog but i am teary for you. please do not let any nay-sayers get you down. follow your heart and live your life. that is what patrick would want for you and his babies.
also, you should contact match.com and get your beautiful self and your sexy fireman in a success commercial ;)

all the best to you. i hope you have many, many, many years of love and happiness together.

Brandi said...

Again, I'm so happy for you and your kids!!!!

Mary A said...

It sounds perfect!!! Many congratulations to you both... and yes, you two should be the new spokespeople!!

Anonymous said...

Congratulations!! I saw the pics on your friend's blog!! Looks like you were quite surprised :)
Can't wait to hear more as the day approaches!!
Brooke

Shannon Dew said...

Erynn I am so happy for you! You deserve it!

Jill said...

That's so awesome! I'm so happy for you!

Does he want more kids or have kids of his own?

MrsKBJ said...

It sounds like God is doing amazing things in your life Erynn. I am so happy for you! I am so excited for you and your family! I love following your blog and I can't wait to read about all your exiting new adventures!
Xo
Kelly

Jeannie said...

How amazing!! Congratulations!! So excited and happy for you :)

erynn said...

Jill- he doesn't have kids and we agreed on one more.. ekk!!

The Flynnigans said...

I've read your page for a long time now and haven't commented (I don't think). I'm glad you have found love once again. You absolutely without a doubt deserve nothing but the best this life has to offer.

Lindsay

The Hunnicutts said...

I'm so happy to hear you are happy!!!
=)

Anonymous said...

I'm so happy for you Erynn! You SO deserve all the happiness in the world!
Wishing you and your Fiancé a lifetime of love, happiness and health!
Congratulations!!

Glenda said...

Congrats! so happy for you and the kids. He sounds like a fabulous man. I'm happy that together you've found happiness. You and the kids so deserve this next chapter in your life and I can't wait to hear all about the wedding. Congrats again! Wishing you a lifetime of love, health and happiness!!!

Anonymous said...

Breakdown............

That is GREAT!!

Kris in Mn

Michelle said...

love you bff...you desserve nothing but the best...and you are so blessed to have found that not only once but twice. He is an INCREDIBLE guy and we love him to pieces! Cheers to 6 months! :) xoxo

Christina R. said...

:) Love the match.com part. I had no idea! Very happy for you. You, W, and R deserve it. You agreed on one more! :) Love it.

Anonymous said...

I love seeing how God has provided for you and your family, Erynn. Words could never express how happy I am for you!

gv said...

So happy for you! I can't wait to hear all the dets about the wedding.

carrie1 said...

this = awesome. =)

Tiffany said...

This is so fabulous!! Congrats!!

Mary said...

I love the breakdown too! It is so amazing to see God at work in your life. He sounds like an amazing man - congratulations! I am so happy for you :)

Janelle said...

Girl, you are going to have to blog more now! I'm so happy for you even though you have no idea who I am!! =) Would love to see pictures!!

PS My husband and I met online too!

DaBabies Momma said...

Congrats Erynn. I am so happy for you. You deserve all the best and so do those beautiful kiddos of yours. Looking forward to reading about your new adventures...
:) Miriam

Anonymous said...

Conrats! Have been lurking a while. Amazing that it all came together for you. Everyone deserves happiness, especially you!! Can't wait to see wedding pics..... Lisa

Anonymous said...

Conrats! Have been lurking a while. Amazing that it all came together for you. Everyone deserves happiness, especially you!! Can't wait to see wedding pics..... Lisa

Melissa said...

Loved the breakdown! You deserve all the happiness! Life is good and you are blessed beautiful mama!

10yearstogether said...

Omg. WHY am I crying reading this? My heart is so happy for you that you've found love and happiness in your life again E. Always wishing the best for you, you know that.

hockeychic said...

This just makes me smile so much. I don't know you except through your blog but you have been through so much and deserve happiness. So glad that you love his family and most of all that you are so happy.

Debbie said...

Erynn - I am so happy for you! And you give me hope! It has been 2.5 years since I lost my husband and I am so scared to put myself out there, but after reading this, you have given me hope! You are the 2nd person this week that has said something about match.com. I may have to check it out. I'm happy with my life now, but it is a little lonely.
So happy for you and for Will and Reese too!
Wishing you much happiness!!

Ahna Childress said...

Congratulations!!! Been reading your blog for a while now - couldnt be happier for you & your little munchkins! You deserve it all!

Allison said...

Erynn -
I have never posted before...I found your blog through Matt Logelin's blog. I met my hubby on match.com 5 years ago (we have been married for 3). We are having our first baby in September!

CONGRATS to you...you and your kids deserve someone wonderful!

Allison
Chicago, Il

Annie said...

so very happy for you and your family!!!
congrats on the engagement!! :)

Aimee said...

So happy for you Erynn!! all the best, xoxo!

Shelbie Molnar said...

I'm so happy for you Erynn! Love you that met on match.com! Danny and I also had our 1st & 2nd date in one day. Guess they can't get enough of us! Sounds like he will be an amazing husband and father. I know it sounds crazy but the kids actually look a little like him. I'm so happy for you that Will and Reese will have such an amazing man in their life (besides your dad of course). You deserve nothing but the best and Im sure Patrick would be pleased. xoxo Congrats Erynn!

Melissa said...

I would love to hear where the first and second date took place.
Very happy for you!
Huge Congrats!

Anonymous said...

God had surely scripted an amazing love story for you! From your amazing 1st and 2nd date to his amazing family to your hopes and plans for the future!.. I'm so happy for you all.. Xoxo Marijana

The Luisi Famiy said...

Congrats!!!!!! So happy for you and your happiness!

Anonymous said...

congrats! You should totally do a post on your match.com experience. I am super intrigued by online successes!

Shelley said...

Woot woot for more babies !!!! :)

jen said...

I'm so so happy for you Erynn. God is so good.

Karen said...

So exciting!! Congratulations Erynn!

Anonymous said...

you deserve to be happy, that's all that matters:))

Wendy said...

Love the story!

Cortney said...

Congrats again Erynn!! I'm so happy for you!

Sarah said...

That is wonderful news! You deserve a life full of happiness, and it's great to hear that you found someone who will give you that.

You don't have to answer this if you think I'm overstepping, but I'm curious...how does Patrick's family feel about everything? My guess is that they are insanely happy for you and want you to be happy, but at the same time their hearts ache a bit. Your situation is so unique.

Blessings to the life ahead of you!

Unknown said...

:), I love the Breakdown as well.
Congratulations, And you are so right "There is not timeline""

Unknown said...

Congratulations, So Happy for you.

Love the breakdown as well.

molly said...

I am so so happy for you, Erynn. You (and your kids) deserve every happiness in the world!

So let's see a photo of this firefighter, pretty please???

And also, you'll need to post photos of your wedding ideas. Oh, how I miss wedding planning ;)

*~Dani~* said...

Congratulations!! I think that is the best news I have heard in a while. My husband and I also met on Match.com. There are a few gems on there, now even less so ;)

The Perry Fam said...

LoVe ThIs!! You definitely should contact match.com and send them a picture and your success story!!

Julie said...

Tears in my eyes right now...Seriously, SO HAPPY for you right now. Wishing you every happiness in the world.

jessica claire said...

Congratulations Erynn! I think of you often and am so glad you've found happiness. Let me know if you need a wedding photographer :) xoxo jessica claire

Anonymous said...

Congrats to you! That's amazing. Your strength is inspiring and looks where its got you - in a great situation, you deserve it!

Glenda said...

Congrats! so happy for you!

Jodi said...

Congrats!
I loved all the details of your wedding when we were all on the Fall board! I hope you share some details with us here!

Jasmine said...

Oh, and did you find THE gown yet? :-D

Cindy said...

It's amazing how happy and emotional you can be for someone you have never met!!! You are such a shining example of how life goes on and you are so deserving of happiness! Congrats!!

erynn said...

Thank you sooooo much for the sweet words!! It makes me tear up reading all of the supportive comments.

Debbie- I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. I hope that you can put yourself out there and find love again! You have NOTHING to lose! Life is too short and you never know what you might find! xo

I bought my dress but it won't be here til August.. kind of weird doing this all over again. Never thought I'd be married twice.

Boston Brit said...

I've been reading for a while but never posted either. What A.M.A.Z.I.N.G. news! My heart is so full for you!!

Harleygurl said...

Congrats! You deserve love and happiness!Wishing you a forever lifetime of love and joy!

Cathleen said...

Congrats...you deserve it! Enjoy every moment.
Wishing you happiness today and always!

Anonymous said...

Erynn, I remember you from your early days back on The Knot (though I'm quite sure you wouldn't remember me). I am sitting here in tears and so happy for you that you have found someone who makes you happy and who is good for you and your children. I wish you all the happiness in the world and congratulations!

Jasmine said...

Oh, I'm sure it feels very strange, Erynn. Hope that you can enjoy the planning somewhat - although I imagine it's truly difficult.

Katie said...

Erynn, I am so happy for you. You are an amazing woman and deserve all he can bring to you and the children. Patrick is proud of you.

julie said...

SO thrilled for you! Congrats! you deserve it and I love the breakdown

Anonymous said...

Hi Erynn,

I found you through Matt Logelin's site, and have read for quite some time. Congrats! This new is fantastic!

Can I ask you a question about Match.com? Did you subscribe? I am having a tough time thinking about paying to meet someone, but I have emails and views and winks I'd like to contact. There is apparently no way to do that without subscribing. Is it worth it?

erynn said...

^ Anonymous..

sorry it took me so long to reply!

I definitely recommend it! For me- it was a great option. I am young, with two young kids, widowed, it's not an easy situation. It weeded out all the guys who weren't willing to take that one and left me with the ones who potentially were. I went on a few dates with different guys (mind you, I haven't dated at all in my adult life since Patrick and I met at 16.) I don't look at like I paid to find a husband. It's not like I mail ordered him. There is no guarantee... but it could happen!

I think of it like this- you pay a cover charge to get into a bar or nightclub and you could potentially meet someone there... you pay to get all dressed up and ready to go to those places.. so why not? I don't go out to bars/clubs so where was I going to meet someone? I definitely wasn't going to wait around for a friend to set me up either. Nothing to lose!

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Michigan Roys said...

I know this is way late, and you may never read this, and you may not care but I am so excited for you! I think it is fantastic and the Lord really is watching over you and your kids.